We all know how important communication is within any relationship, especially in marriage. Communication is what you say, but it is also what you don’t say. Somethings are better left unsaid. Check out this list. After reading it, you might want to say something else to your spouse, “I am sorry!”
- “I told you so”
- “You are just like your mother”
- “You are always in a bad mood”
- “You just don’t think”
- “It’s your fault”
- “What’s wrong with you?”
- “All you ever do is complain”
- “I can’t do anything to please you”
- “You get what you deserve”
- “Why don’t you ever listen to me?”
- “You’re impossible”
- “I don’t know why I put up with you”
- “I can talk to you until I am blue in the face, and it does no good.”
- “I can do whatever I like”
- “If you don’t like it, leave!”
- “Can’t I do anything right?”
- “That was stupid”
- “All you ever do is think of yourself”
- “If you really loved me, you would do this”
- “You’re such a baby”
- “Turnabout is fair play”
- Your deserve a dose of your own medicine.”
- “What’s your problem?”
- “I can never understand you”
- Do you always have to be right?”
(27 Things Not to Say to Your Spouse, Stories from the Heart, p175-176
Do you always have to be right? Hmm… that’s a hard one. What if you are always right? That would be Jeremy’s question.
Sounds like you are in the midst of a good sermon. We might have to get on line and check it out. 
not being married doesnt mean someone wouldnt hear these I have heard my dad say a lot of them to my mom more times then I can count and have had some of them said to me.
This is, without a doubt, the best series for the times. With the enemy at the doorstep (or worse) at all times…church is where we should be dealing with the issues of purity and marriage. I am praying fervently that Abba will open hearts and eyes and change many marriages, and that are youth and young adults will hear the reason behind God’s plan in a fresh hew way. We are living proof of what blessings are to be had in repentance, obedience and restoration.